Later the same day

yeah, so I can't find the divorce folder now. I remember being in the bus and closing it and taking it out of current and putting it "away" but where the "away" was escapes me. I assumed I put in the file cabinet but I have not found it there.  I'm feeling extra frusrated about it and I don't kow what to do. From what I can tell, the judge wants me to pretty much do it all again, process server and all, and I don't see how I can.  But in the long run, I don't care about the paper work, just glad he's out of the house. If he's going to suddenly be someone with a lawyer and he forces himself back into my house, a worst case scenario, then I'll pack my teardrop and drive to the coast and live out of my teardrop and car until they break, crash or are impounded or ? Because I won't live with Dan again. I'm clear on that. I hated it. But I don't think he will do anything. He's out and staying out now.I'm too tired to care and need to not care.  How in hell will I sleep? I'm so damn scattered still.  If I can pull myself into the now, it's not that awful. The dogs are both squeaking for some reason I don't understand, but otherwise, it's nice here. Warm and pretty with entertainment and activities and food. For now, anyway, tonight, it's quite nice in the now. I've done a nice job making it nice. 

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