Divorce can be a joyful thing.
I finished filing the divorce papers. It's all done and they'll mail the certificates back to us. I clicked my heels with joy when I left the court clerk. I'm really focusing on the good things about being single again. It's not that there's nothing that worries me, but that I want to be joyful so I'm making an effort. And it's not hard when I have been so very miserable for far too long. I honestly don't think I've been miserable because of bad mental habits. Rather, being sick of cancer, and being subtly emotionally abused is to blame. I'm sure I can find quiet joy and I know I have before. It's always been outside pressures that made me miserable. One improvement is feeling like I can defend my use of social income much better now than I could as a youth. I also recognize for myself that I was always disabled. I'm just more so now, enough not to get arguments back. Dan seems to actually have something lined up, but as he hasn...