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compromising

When you face another human, you are expressing your thoughts on your face.  or psychically.  Not sure. But they can get the gist of your opinion without one word yet said. Now you can do that with them too.  So ok, how are you going to negotiate to get the outcome you want?  You are here together for something, and you want something.  What do they want? Ok, now that's the surface statement, but what do you *really* want?  Like the neighbor who wants you to get off his case and you want the stream of noise and stink of garbage to cease. What could reward him for co-operating with your need, and what can you give to enable him to co-operate?  I mean, yeah, sometimes you need to get a bigger hammer, ie call the cops.   It could instead be a police officer doing an inspection and finding a minor flaw in your vehicle that you haven't been able to remedy. It could be a border guard deciding whether to search you.  What's that person, not tha...

shouldn't be put on facebook

"Be who you needed when you were younger" I've always tried to do this and remarkably, parents have kept their children away from me. Not because I am unkind, abusive, cruel, or well, that other abuse. Nope. Because I tell the truth. Far as I can tell. Parents take the shaping of their offspring's mind awfully seriously. They don't want their kids to now the truth until it's impossible to hide it. From santa claus to alternate lifestyles to sociopolitics, medicine and personal rights, kids are deliberately kept from knowing. Well since I'm on the blog now, I'll sketch out the last few weeks. I've kept the dog from spending time alone with Dan over a short time. I figure about a half an hour or so is fine, but by the hour I'll go collect her. She's gotten in the habit of being "my" dog by this anyway and asks to come back out to me. I'm living in a bus in the yard to keep away from the primary source of stress in my l...

he broke my puppy!

I left the dogs in the house with Dan thinking it was a nice break for me but I guess I can't trust him with the dogs because the puppy IS housebroken.  She comes and asks for your attention then you take her out. But apparently not Dan, he just brushes her off over and over and she finally goes in the house.  As she would at her age.  Well she pooped all over the cheap area rugs downstairs and Dan lost his shit and shouted and raged so hard she's still cowering when I try to call her.  She won't come when called and hunkers down low to the ground under something when approached as if she's terrified. I'm so angry with Dan. He came her and drove me out of my bedroom and now my house.  Fucking asshole.